Sunday, March 29, 2009

Faith

Faith,do I have enough faith to stay with you.I always said:"Treat me the way you want me to treat you."I can't hold myself to treat you good.

The hot and cold,why will I be very happy although is just a single message from you?


Jesse McCartney- just so you know

I shouldn't love you but I want to
I just can't turn away
I shouldn't see you but I can't move
I can't look away



I shouldn't love you but I want to
I just can't turn away
I shouldn't see you but I can't move
I can't look away




And I don't know how to be fine when I'm not
'Cause I don't know how to make a feeling stop



Just so you know
This feeling's taking control of me
And I can't help it
I won't sit around, I can't let him win now
Thought you should know
I've tried my best to let go of you
But I don't want to
I just gotta say it all
Before I go
Just so you know



It's getting hard to be around you
There's so much I can't say
Do you want me to hide the feelings
And look the other way




And I don't know how to be fine when I'm not
'Cause I don't know how to make a feeling stop




Just so you know
This feeling's taking control of me
And I can't help it
I won't sit around, I can't let him win now
Thought you should know
I've tried my best to let go of you
But I don't want to
I just gotta say it all
Before I go
Just so you know





This emptiness is killing me
And I'm wondering why I've waited so long
Looking back I realize
It was always there just never spoken
I'm waiting here...been waiting here




Just so you know
This feeling's taking control of me
And I can't help it
I won't sit around, I can't let him win now
Thought you should know
I've tried my best to let go of you
But I don't want to
I just gotta say it all
Before I go
Just so you know

Friday, March 27, 2009

Change


Not related title.By the way,I'm supporting the Earth Hour activities.8:30pm to 9:30,switch off the unnecessary electrical appliance.

I'm superb today(27th March).Meet someone I missed a lot.I went back Jusco Setiawangsa.Went DDR and all.I don't care what you think about me.Cause I know I tried my best to let you know,I'm not someone you knew.

Mario searching for Mushroom.Will they meet in dream,again?

Sunday, March 22, 2009

Enjoyable

Life is short,waste it on....

Currently,enjoying life the way it is.Try to make it better,make it to a prefect life?But,noting is prefect.So,I'll just make more it to the closest point,next to prefect.

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Is it just a dream?

He had a dream,or is that his 7 sense?Why 7 but not 6 sense?Cause he got no 6 but 7 sense.Maybe it's because his lucky number is 7.

The dream....

He asked her 2 a date.They went out and everything was great until something happened...They had an argument.She walked away without giving him a chance to explain...He sped up his pace and hold her on the hand.He tell her everything,she was touch and the tears pour down.It was truly a touch scenery.Because of the incident,they were make up and lead to a happy life.

The dream was almost there,maybe a bit different.That is what he remember.Hope it's a 7 sense of his not just a dream..

Tuesday, March 17, 2009



I miss YOU.



I miss YOU.



I miss YOU.



I miss YOU.



I miss YOU.




Do you hear me?I miss you.

Monday, March 16, 2009

Aaron's Law

If you think you're good in formulas.Try to think about this law.

Talent (Intelligent)x Hard work x Language = Result(Aaron's first law)

Talent=How smart you're born.How fast can you absorb new things.
(It's a fixed fact(genetic factor) that you can't change.But that's other 2 facts that depends on you)

Hard work=How determined you're to make things right.How much afford you put,time is included.How much you sacrificed on it.

Language=You must be good in a language to show or prove you know something.Whether are you able to put them into sentences.You must be able to make people understand you,the way you explain and presence it.

Do you understand my LAW?Try to analyse it.Nobody is prefect,a born genius doesn't mean he or she will do well in the future.It's depends on MY LAW.

Everyone have the chance to make things right,if my LAW makes you realise something.Congrats,when you do well in the future,don't forget who inspired you.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Happiness



The Things That Make Us Happy

The Myth: We think the finer things in life will make us happy. The Reality: Most of what makes us happy is pretty prosaic.

Happiness is stubborn; hard to find, difficult to augment. Circumstances under our control (employment, education, money) account for only about 10 to 15 percent of our "subjective well-being," the technical term for how good we judge life to be. Happiness is largely due to personality traits and temperament; the torments or glories of fate don't make a huge difference in how we feel. When it comes to subjective well-being, "you don't get a big bang out of the real world," says Alex Michalos of the University of Northern British Columbia.

But if you're determined to optimize that 10 to 15 percent that's in your control, our happiness fact list offers a few clues that are based on multiple studies.

Beauty
People like pretty. Good looks help your popularity and, by extension, your career; both boost mood. But beauty on its own doesn't do much good.


Money
If you're poor, money does make a difference. But above a threshold of about $40,000 a year, more won't make you happier. Comparisons, though, influence your state of mind: No matter how much or how little you make, doing better than your neighbor will make you feel better.


Education
In the 1950s, book learning brought happiness, but a college education no longer lifts well-being on its own. Education opens the door to a better career, but it also fosters higher expectations that may be disappointed.


Aging
Young people are more aware of bad news and negative emotions than are the elderly. Aging seems to bias us toward the positive, despite more fragile health and finances; that may be because we've come closer to reaching our goals.


Intelligence
Smarts have only a weak effect on happiness; being brainy may decrease satisfaction by raising your expectations and making you more aware of your shortcomings.


Religion
Surprisingly, churchgoers get only a small lift from the Lord. The cause: Faith fosters both community ties and social networks, which are both known to make people happier.


Free time
Well-spent leisure time can lead to great leaps in happiness: Activities that combine socializing and physical activity and require some moderate skills are the best . Most of us spend a lot of our leisure time watching TV, which can be relaxing; but we'd be happier if we just went bowling,football or even basketball. Don't envy your laid-off friends; while the unemployed have more time, most have little active leisure, which is one of the reasons they're so unhappy.



Narcissism
High self-esteem protects against psychological suffering, and a little bit of narcissism is good for your mood: People with abundant self-love are less likely to be depressed, lonely or anxious.(See,self-satisfaction is good*sometime*)


Social skills
Friendship is one of life's main joys. Due to novelty, spending time with friends lifts your mood more than spending time with family. Being cooperative and knowing how to chat up the opposite sex are also associated with happiness.*That's why I'm always being "friendly".*



Sense of humor
Not taking things so seriously can bring hope and happiness. People with a hopeful outlook tend to also be good at laughing.


Volunteering
In one study, volunteer and charity work generated more joy than anything except dancing. The sense of accomplishment, the social connection and the chance to do something meaningful are what make it so much fun.*Helping people is always a fun thing to do,that's what I always do.Believe it or not,it's your business.*


Hint: Enjoy the little things; being pleased frequently has more influence on well-being than being intensely happy once in a while.



Edited by:
Aaron

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Disappointment.

Disappointment,again and again.I swear.I will never let me feel this bad anymore,NEVER.

From the result I get,it prove something,something I had to realise earlier but I did not.And now,I know where am I and what's my ability.I'm a star,but not a outstanding one,yet.There are stars outside and they shine brightly.A tiny little star like me struggle to stand out.

Here,I apologize to everyone who put hope on me.
  • First,my parents.I know both of you guys love me as much as I love you guys.But,I'm sorry to disappoint you again.I'm sorry.

  • My relatives,my result wasn't that good since I was a boy.I'm a lazy ass and always did not complete my homework.But,you guys did not give up me.And now,I'm improving slowly but I still did not get what I targeted.Feel bad to make you guys disappointed.I'm sorry.

  • My friends,friends always have a really important position in my heart but I will never like to show how important they're to me.Friends who really know me will know how bad I feel now.Here,I want to thanks a friend of my,Arvind Raj.You play a big part in my life.And proud to have you as my BEST FRIEND.Buddies,I'm sorry.

  • Teachers,I'm happy to have you as my teacher.Though,I did not do well in my exam.But I do learned a lot from you.Thank you.Here,I promise you.Your afford,scarification on me did not waste.I will prove to you,you're a good teacher.I'm sorry.

Here,I apologize to myself.Always being over confident make me fail in things.My attitude,I will try to change myself.As I always say,revolution is life.Blame is all on me,God do love me after all.Although HE did not give me what I asked(good result) but HE make me realise.It will surely help me in the future.

I struggle to hold the tears but I lose the fight.I will never give up to make myself to be a Shinning STAR I wanted to be.

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

SPM result


That's wait all of us waited for months.But,it's just around the corner and I felt really nervous.I want to get good result.
To prove to ,HIM or HER?No,I just want to prove to myself.I don't hope to beat anyone.Just want to reach my target,somewhere I targeted for a long time.To prove I'm a star,A SHINNY STAR.
GOD
bless me,and you.

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Why Do We Repeat Emotional Mistakes?

We humans are a funny breed … We tend to learn from physical mistakes but when it comes to matters of the heart and falling in love, many of us are gluttons for punishment who repeat patterns again and again.

By Rich Santos

Part of human intelligence is learning from mistakes. The common example is when a child touches a hot stove for the first time. That child knows never to touch that stove again because of the physical pain it caused.
But why do we repeat so many mistakes when it comes to our emotions?
We learn at work when we make mistakes. We learn from horrible non-dating experiences in life.

I've learned to avoid saying stupid things to girls: Once you've complimented a girl on how great her outfit looks, don't try to double-compliment her by saying it looks like she got a great deal at Target, too (only other girls can get away with that).

Emotional mistakes? Seems like we are gluttons for punishment. Here are some common emotional mistakes that people can make, and often repeat:


Taking them back: You broke up with him/her, but even if he/she was a total jerk there is still a soft spot in your heart. You remember the good times, and — hey — it's not THAT fun being single. Often, we end up taking back people who have hurt us in the past or who just didn't work out. Not sure how often this works out, but doesn't it seem like we would be able to say "no"? Believing this time, he or she is "The One": I'm so guilty of this one — I get a number, I meet a girl, I feel like there is some kind of magical cloud hanging over me. I'm still single, so obviously I have been way off with these predictions. I mistakenly believe I've met "The One" about once in two years. You'd think that I'd learn not to get so ahead of myself at "Hello."

I miss him/her?Did I?Did you ask yourself the same question after breaking out with "THE ONE"?

Getting lied to repeatedly: Isn't it terrible when someone stays in a relationship while they are being lied to? It seems like everyone on the outside knows what's going on, but that person in the relationship believes everything to the point of blindness. In a perfect world, we'd learn from one lie, but often we think that lies are isolated incidents when in fact we could be getting lied to repeatedly.




Staying with someone wrong for you (a.k.a. "I can change him/her"): Why do we stay with people when they are jerks, and why do we keep thinking we can change people? It's much better to be alone than to be dating a jerk. Why can't we apply that common sense?




Mistaking physical intimacy for emotional intimacy: When we are in the heat of the moment, emotional closeness gets all intertwined with physical closeness. Sometimes we feel that if we get close physically, it will eventually lead to a close emotional connection. I can say I have never gotten into anything special that was sparked by a physical connection and, believe me, I've tried. The deeper relationships grow out of a gradual emotional connection. Nevertheless, sometimes we think if we have sex, then something might come of it.



Emotional pain is much more complicated than physical pain or a mistake at work that you learn from and never repeat. I guess it's true "Love Is a Battlefield," but it's a shame that we must go through pain and make multiple mistakes to get to where we want to be in the dating world. Humans naturally want to trust and love. We want to believe that the good in everyone will prevail, and it's devastating to come to grips with the fact that you may have misjudged someone. This is why we are prone to repeat emotional mistakes. We are left to choose between withdrawing from dating, or going through the mistakes until you find The One, because it's almost impossible to know for sure that something will not be an emotional mistake until after it's too late.


Will my next chapter of life meet the dream girl and live happy after?I do hope it will.


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